Values, Sacred and
Profane
By
Denny Meyer |
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The battle
for LGBT rights in the military is over, right? Wrong.
The Department of Defense is blocked from providing
equal family benefits to gay service members due to the
Defense of Marriage Act which prohibits the recognition
of same sex marriages and families, based on the
beliefs of a segment of the population. All efforts to
change that are challenged and prevented by bigoted
zealots in Congress. Wrapped in the American flag,
those zealots seem to hold some of the same sort of values as those of
the foreigners who attacked America: No rights
for women, no rights for homosexuals, no rights for
minorities and anyone who is different, a resentment of
freedom, and the imposition of religious laws on the
entire nation. Imagine if our government said that
African Americans and
Christians may serve in our armed forces, but because of
their race or religion, they don’t get any family
benefits! Outrageous, yet that is exactly what
they are doing to gay patriots serving our nation.
What if
some members of Congress refused to grant family benefits to female service
members because they want to go back to a time when
women were without any rights at all? What would it be
like if we lived in a strict theocracy, like those in
some middle eastern countries, where women can be beaten for walking in public
with their heads uncovered and where homosexual
teenagers are
hung in public squares simply because of who they are?
Imagine
living in a country where the beliefs of one religion
are law. Be careful what you wish for! Imagine all the horrible possibilities of
your worst fears; and now imagine a democratic country
where beliefs and laws are kept separate. Yes, imagine
living in America. There are those in Congress and those
running for president now
who want to change that. And we LGBT Americans are
in their gun sights along with women and other
minorities.
It has
happened before, in Germany in the 1930s where a series
of increasingly discriminatory exclusions against Jews
were enacted. They were forbidden from certain
occupations, from owning businesses, and from going to
school. At first these seemed reasonable to
people there who felt that, since it didn't affect them,
it was none of their concern. So, they didn't
speak up. By the time that the Genocide began,
most didn't dare speak up because speaking up was
punishable by death as well. The Rev. Martin
Niemöller, who himself had
been sent to a concentration camp for speaking up,
described the Nazi era thus:
"First they came for the Socialists, and I
did not speak out --
Because I was not a Socialist.
Then they came for the Trade Unionists,
and I did not speak out --
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I did
not speak out --
Because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for me -- and there was no
one left to speak for me."
If you think that such things
cannot happen here, just recall the anti-union laws
enacted last year. In fact, Sinclair Lewis wrote
It Can't Happen Here in 1936, prophetically
describing exactly how zealots could change America.
Bigoted American zealots have already
started with attempted exclusions: Keeping gay patriots
from serving in the military, keeping women from making
their own choices, keeping minorities from voting,
keeping those less fortunate from having healthcare, and
more. These are all belief-based selective
exclusions that would affect all Americans regardless of
their religious beliefs.
How do
they justify this outrage? They claim that their
religious rights entitle them to discriminate and
exclude and deny basic benefits and equality. They
claim that requiring equality and health benefits
discriminates against their religious values. What
The….! Talk about shit turned upside down! How stupid
do they think Americans are?
Here we
are in America in the year 2012, eleven years after
religious fanatics from the other side of the planet
attacked America because they resent our freedom. They
want to impose their religious laws on the entire world
and intend to kill those who will not submit. Has that attack
increased our American resolve to rejoice in our freedom
and our determination to renew our resolve to maintain
and increase that American value? No, not for some
politicians. They want to
enshrine into law exactly the values that those who
attacked us want; and what the extremist leaders of
some Middle Eastern countries want. The names of the
faiths are different but the belief-based laws are
almost the same: Women shall have no rights, Homosexuals
shall have no rights and should preferably be put to
death, and marriage shall be permitted only according to the
wishes of elders who either have multiple wives or are
forbidden to marry at all. Neither bunch of elders
seems qualified to decide who shall be allowed to love whom.
Some
years ago, I visited extremely religiously conservative
relatives living in the Middle East. During the
visit, the elder of the family sat me down and with
great and kindly concern asked me what I believed in.
I spoke about the obligation to speak up in the face of
oppression, about the goal of humanity to achieve
harmony thru mutual respect; and, as I went on, his face
grew redder and redder with anger until, finally, he
banged his fist on the table and exclaimed, "That is Not
OUR religion, that is American ideology!" I never
felt prouder in my life; if only it were true.
© 2012 Gay Military Signal