An Expectation
of Equality
by Denny Meyer |
|
Who does not remember that November night just two
years ago, when it became clear that Barack Obama had
been elected President? The live TV images of
people weeping tears of joy in Grants Park in
Chicago were cathartic with Hope. And a month
and a half later the hope became truth as the nation
watched, enthralled, the inauguration night moment
when the new President and First Lady danced to
Biance singing "At Last." (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-pzlZPRvx8, it
still makes me cry like a baby).
What was it all about?
It was a national expectation of equality, at last,
for everyone. How long ago those moments now
seem. But, not everyone was happy. There
were those who seethed with a racial hatred and
political anger that has not dimmed one bit since.
Every single effort at establishing equality was
fought by them as if they were America's worst
enemy. They proclaimed that America does not
want equality in health care, equality in marriage,
equality for immigrants brought here as
innocent children, equality for women and LGBT Americans, and
more. And to cut past all the bullshit, they
didn't want equality for the President, most of all.
What the hell happened? Did we
expect too much? On that long ago night in
November 2008, we Americans puffed out our chests in
pride, at having done the right thing, finally, at
last. And then it was all snatched away, day
by day for two years of disappointment. And
this November 2010 the mid term election seemed to
have nailed the coffin shut on our hope.
The American people have misspoken. The mid
term election
is over. A majority voted to get no
unemployment help, no benefits, no money to put food
on the table for their children, no help preventing
the foreclosure of their homes, no health care, all
for the privilege of prejudice. Pandering in
panic to the far right failed. Arkansas
Democrat Blanche Lincoln, who was one of only two
Democrats to vote with the Senate Republicans
against DADT debate in September, lost her
bid for reelection in November. She has one more chance, now
in the Lame Duck session,
before she gives up her seat. Perhaps she can now
remember that her name once belonged to a president
who loved another man.
In the coming weeks, the Senate can either duck or
vote for equality for America's patriotic
volunteers. I don't think they have the
courage. I would very much like to hear how
wrong I was.
The news analysis on what will happen has been
changing every hour for weeks. As I write this
rant in the last days of November, I realize that it
might all be irrelevant sometime in December. First, the White House had dropped DADT
repeal as a priority for the Lame Duck session in
the Senate; then they said that it IS a priority.
Then the pending Pentagon survey report was leaked
with the news that most service members could care
less who loves whom and that they had no concern
that DADT repeal would result in disruptions to unit cohesion, combat ops, nor
family angst. This news set off the McCain
clown-show in which the Senator, who had been
eagerly expecting the opposite, claimed that the
wrong questions had been asked and that the
"military leaders" whose negative opinions he'd
awaited had merely given their personal positive
opinions rather than official assessments on
whether or not DADT repeal would adversely affect
unit cohesion and combat readiness. He then
cited the personal negative opinions that had been
given by some service chiefs who had insubordinately
spoken up against repeal. He even suggested
that service members be asked to vote on ending DADT;
imagine! McCain's public
excuses and conflicting commentary became so
ridiculous that both
The Daily Show and
Rachel Maddow ran mocking segments about his
self contradictions. And yet, this single
anachronistic senile old bigot can kill gay rights
for the next decade to come.
I
was raised by refugee parents to believe in and
expect equality in America. But, silence wont
work. There are those who actively want to
take America backward. If you expect equality,
call your senators and tell
them to vote for DADT repeal because somehow some of
them still think that their jobs depend on bigots.
© 2010 Gay Military Signal