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A young man or woman’s decision to join the military is often important because it is his or her first independent decision. This decision may chart their career or at least the course of their life for several years. My decision to join the Army during the height of the Vietnam War was just that for me. Even though my family and many friends had doubts about my joining the Army I was clear about my decision, but no one can foresee all that the future holds.

At the time I enlisted in the Army in Albuquerque in 1967, I was only beginning to understand that I might be somewhat different, but did not yet realize that I was gay. Even as I worked through training and took my first assignment as a clerk at Fort Benning, Georgia, it was not apparent to me and certainly not to others. What was apparent, was that I enjoyed the physical and mental challenge of military life, the structured teamwork with others, and soon was accepted for Infantry Officer Candidate School at Fort Benning.

After more months of grueling training my father proudly pinned my gold bars on my uniform at graduation. Within six months I was with the 4th Infantry Division in the Central Highlands of Vietnam. My second day in command of my platoon in 3d Battalion 12th Infantry Regiment near the Cambodian border was one of the longest in my life. The company commander was wounded and four others killed in an NVA ambush and I briefly found myself in command of our isolated jungle mountain firebase. I believe that the decisions that I made with my NCOs in the coming days and months made 1st Platoon the one that commanders knew they could depend on. "First in and last out" was the motto we adopted for ourselves. We patrolled in the remote Ia Drang Valley, Pleiku, through the rugged Chu Pa Mountains and across the booby trap infested coastal area. 1st Platoon was the most decorated in the company that year and I returned home with two Bronze Stars and a Purple Heart. Most importantly I only lost one man that year which is something I have never forgotten. I have honored his memory many times by pausing in prayer by his name on the wall at the Vietnam Memorial in Washington.

Back in the States by 1970, I could have returned to civilian life, but extended my service, serving as a Company Commander twice, battalion staff and executive officer in the Army Reserves and then back on active duty. By now I realized I was gay, but carefully kept my private feelings separate from my military life. Numerous friends and associates, my group commander and even a general officer either knew or thought I might be gay. Yet, it never affected my work. My one regret was that my military service discouraged me from entering a long term relationship. I could not take a "friend" or "partner’ to a dining in or even introduce them to the "brothers" in the unit.

Promoted to Lieutenant Colonel in 1986, I served as Chief of Military Education for the entire Army Reserves, developing an airline reservation like system that saved millions of dollars for officer and enlisted training. Then as a division inspector general, I developed and conducted one of the first unit climate surveys that clearly showed, among other issues, there was more tolerance for gays in the military than anyone at that time had reason to believe and that women were adversely affected by the prohibition of gays in the military. My commanding General accepted the report without question. In 1993 "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" was passed as a compromise between President Clinton and Congress. Although still objectionable, I thought the change might be somewhat better than the previous complete prohibition. It was then, after meeting with Randy Shilts in my home, I made a decision that if my homosexuality was ever discovered; I would fight to stay in the Army. Randy intended to use our conversations in his follow-up to his seminal book, Conduct Unbecoming, but died of AIDS before it was completed. It wouldn’t be long before my resolve would be put to the test.

Finally, I was assigned as the Chief of Engineer War Plans for III Corps at Fort Hood, Texas. In a continuous high operations tempo, we trained repeatedly to deploy the Corps, the 1st Cavalry Division and the 4th Infantry Division to the Middle East and after the death of Kim Il Song in 1994, we trained intensely for the defense of South Korea. We spent repeated extended periods of duty in South Korea evaluating the terrain, enemy and writing our plans.

Just weeks after being selected for promotion to Colonel and on the night I was awarded a fourth Meritorious Service Medal, I came home to find my house on fire from arson. After saving my Labrador, Brig, but losing my Manx cat, Nevada, I quickly realized it was set by a former partner who later said he acted from fear of what the Army might do under "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" if they found out he was gay. It shook me with equal parts of anger and fear. Those following hot August days were made more bearable as friends, neighbors and associates, gay and straight, helped me clean out my house and recover my property while I tensely waited for the Army to act on illegally gained information that I was gay. From the night of the fire, I knew without hesitation I would fight the Army’s effort to discharge me, no matter how difficult or isolating it might become.

1LT Loomis with 1st Platoon NCOs on firebase in Central Highlands, Vietnam 1970

In the coming months I, my military and civilian attorneys with assistance from Servicemembers’ Legal Defense Network, discovered errors and fabrications in the Army’s claims, but the Army had made up its collective mind. A day did not pass that family or friends did not call to check on me or to offer support. The Army was unwilling to admit mistakes were made and discharged me in the summer of 1997 just five days before I was eligible for full 20 year retirement. Even though the Army acknowledged they claimed "force, coercion or intimidation" without factual grounds, they refused to reinstate my retirement eligibility. It was, and remains, a tactic often used by the military in cases against gays. To fight this injustice I made a difficult decision to open my private life to the media and within days of my discharge my story ran on the front page of the Dallas Morning News and then across the national press. When Morley Safer of CBS interviewed me on 60 Minutes, we knew we had a strong public case and that the public was becoming more interested in the problems caused by Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.

Finally, we filed our case in the U.S. Federal Court of Claims and were the first case to argue the unconstitutionality of "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" following the Lawrence v. Texas Supreme Court decision. Our judge was conservative but, we felt that if he adhered to the law as most conservatives claim they must, we would win our case. We also understood that he would find for us on narrow grounds, so he could avoid setting precedent. After hearing the arguments, and attempting unsuccessfully to get a settlement agreement from the Army, he ordered the Army to retire me with full back pay. In an unusual act, the judge also ordered the Army to pay attorneys fees to me as the prevailing party. Winning and getting my retirement back would have been a tremendous relief, but the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy remained and thousands of other Americans still served under its all to draconian and debilitating shadows.

Not long after, Sergeant Wilcox who served in my 1st Platoon in Vietnam called me from his home in Utah. He, his wife and other buddies had seen the 60 Minutes story and hoped I won my case. For my guys from combat to track me down and offer their support was a fitting end. Finally, nine years after my discharge, I could move on and fight Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell from outside the Army.

In the dust and mud of Vietnam soldiers huddled against each other as rounds sailed toward their positions. No one asked if the guy beside them was gay, only if he had his steel pot on, rifle ready and his mind clear. We must judge every soldier, straight or gay, not by what they do consensually in their private bedroom, but by how well they do their job and if they succeed in their mission. Increased diversity in the military has sometimes meant pain in the short run, but it has always in the long run brought increased strength and respect for our military not only within our country, but around the world. When equal rights to serve are extended to gays, they will continue to serve as well and as faithfully as all others. Few but themselves will notice any difference and all the military will be better for it.

Lieutenant Colonel Loomis is now retired in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He is the President of the Bataan Chapter of American Veterans for Equal Rights. As a teenager he became an Eagle Scout. He is a graduate of the University of New Mexico with a Bachelor’s in Journalism. During his military career he served in the Infantry and Engineer branches and was awarded: