A
Gay Soldier
Captain
Avner Even-Zohar
Israeli Defense Forces
by
Denny Meyer |
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Looking
at the title of this article, I suddenly realized that
if it stood alone, without another word, it would say
a great deal all by itself. A Captain in the
toughest fighting force on earth is gay. If a
gay person can serve with distinction in the Israeli
Defense Forces (IDF) then all arguments against the
character and fitness of homosexuals serving in any
armed force become moot.
Gay Israeli
citizens, and nearly all other Israelis, have always been
required to serve in the IDF; being gay is no excuse,
everyone is needed in the armed forces of a nation
surrounded by countries sworn to destroy it and its
people. In 1993, Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin
enabled gay service members to serve without
discrimination; thus carrying out a democratic policy
of equality, in a religious and masculine dominated
nation, that has yet to be enacted in the United
States.
According
to Capt. Even-Zohar, gay service members were
considered a security risk during the 1980s
due to the concern that they could be
blackmailed; so the policy at that time
limited them to lower rank and security
clearances during their mandatory
service. In 1993, amidst parliamentary
hearings on gay rights, poignant testimony was
heard from a former officer and research
scientist who had been a principle contributor
in Israel's most top secret national security
project. Under suspicion of
homosexuality, he'd been demoted to sergeant
and his security clearance was revoked.
Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin realized the
absurdity of dishonoring one of the
nation's heroes. He essentially ordered an end
to the policy telling his top military
commanders that if they could not bring
themselves to follow orders to fully integrate
openly homosexual service members, he'd
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Rabin
had been the Chief of Staff of the Israeli
Army during the Six-Day War and was previously
the Commander of Israel's elite Northern
Command; and thus the commanders of Israel's
military had to respect his authority and
carry out the change. It was noted that
Israel was able to make this transition
despite being a conservative country where
religion and state are interlaced, with a
battle-hardened military responsible for
guarding a nation under constant attack. |
Avner
Even-Zohar was born to a secular Israeli parents in
Tel Aviv in 1969. Even in Israel, this was the
dawn of the gay rights era. Hence it was not
unusual for him to consciously realize that he was gay
at the age of 13, in the early 1980s, when it was
common for even straight secular boys in Israel to
wear earrings and rave about Freddy Mercury of
England's "Queen."
As
he approached the age of 18, there was no thought of
not entering the military; nearly everyone goes; its
the second rite of passage in Israel for Jewish boys
and girls, straight and gay, Sabra or immigrant,
of European or Middle Eastern descent. He
eagerly wanted to serve. He'd been president of
the student government in his high school and was
considered a good prospect to be an officer.
Nevertheless, as a young gay man, he had dreaded the
prospect of group showers and worried about what he
would do if his peers found out about him. As it
turned out, there was not much of a problem. |
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Although
he'd been unaware of it when he entered service,
Israel had begun to change its policy regarding gays
in the military in 1983 (just about the time he was
coming out to himself, coincidentally). Everyone
served, but prior to 1983 each commander more or less
decided how to handle gay service members under his command. The new rules sought to standardize
procedures so that each case was carefully examined
and assured that there would be no harassment.
Israel's primary concern, above all else, is security;
everything else is more or less irrelevant.
Hence, the main issue regarding gay people was their
military security clearance due to apprehension
that they could be blackmailed. It took
government rule makers another decade to have the
epiphany that if you are open about who you are, you
can't be blackmailed.
In
1987 during the first Intifada, his first assignment
was in a communications unit in the Southern Command,
near Beersheva. He then transferred to an
education unit and served as a sergeant educating
Israeli troops serving in Lebanon. He became an
officer after having graduated as a cadet with the
highest honors.
He
had volunteered for Lebanon duty in 1988, operating
out of a headquarters base in Kiryat Shmona, to
provide ongoing education to troops, stationed over
the border, about issues such as The Arab-Israeli
Conflict, The Holocaust, the population of Lebanon and
its civil war, and relations between Israel and
Syria. His duties also included providing
recreational reading matter, newspapers, and
videos. He was to go into Lebanon two times per
week, but ended up staying with his troops there 4 to
5 days at a time. Wearing the Israeli winter
high altitude snow uniform seen in the film Yossi and
Jager, he arrived in an armored minivan equipped with
a TV and VCR (the VCR had to be acquired by the
process that sergeants the world over know as
"relocation"). The most important
aspect of his work there evolved into counseling
troops to alleviate combat stress. In the IDF,
even an educator is armed; and he fought alongside his
troops in firefights when his weekly convoys in and
out of Lebanon were ambushed and attacked by Hezbolah
irregulars.
During
most of his active service, he frankly admits,
he was not out as a gay man; not even to
himself. He knew, but suppressed his
self-awareness simply by avoiding the issue
and focusing on his work. His work as a
leader, was incredibly exciting and rewarding
because it allowed him, as an educator, to try
to bring people together and increase
interaction and understanding. As the
Commander of a small education unit in the
upper Galilee, where Jews and Arabs often
lived in close proximity, he conceived the
idea that the region was a "human
mosaic" and developed a program of going
into villages and meeting with mayors.
He took Israeli troops to visit a museum of
Palestinian Heritage and to meet with
community leaders. Rather than dealing
with his own personal issues of being
different, he focused his efforts on
"making the world a better place"
through evoking understanding amid human
diversity. Daring to |
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attempt
this in an area where ethnic groups are
resolutely determined to remain separate from
one another earned him the respect of all he
met, particularly his military
superiors. And yet, as his leadership
training stressed, to be a fully effective
role model, a professional leader has to be
self-aware and confident in his own
identity. How much more he might have
done had he been able to feel secure about
being open about who he was. Just as
patriotic LGBT American service members
continue to do to this day, he sacrificed his
personal needs for the task of doing his duty
to his country to the absolute best of his
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As
an openly gay man, his success currently as an
educator, demonstrates how honest self awareness and
openness contribute to highly effective communication
and leadership ability.
As
it turned out, he wryly noted, his own troops were
more aware and accepting of his being gay than he was
himself. He had called a meeting of officers and
NCOs under his command to give a somewhat overly harsh
critical speech about performance of duty. After
he stormed out of the room, from the other side of the
door he'd slammed behind him, he overheard them
commenting, "We have to find him a
boyfriend...." Oy vey. Needless to
say, they admired him enough to be concerned about his
well being.
After
discrimination against gays in the Israeli Defense
Force was prohibited in 1993, people began to come out
because they knew they were protected. The army
had created channels to report rights
violations. Affirmative action programs were
established, such as sensitivity training in the
national police department, and a special pre-military
service training program that stresses affirmation and
rights.
America and Israel
have been staunch allies since the birth of that brave
nation. If Israel, under siege, can affirm its
LGBT citizen soldiers, America can easily honor its
own patriotic volunteers.
©
2008 Gay Military Signal
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